Exactly! I should have qualified my position on the debt - if your kid is going into debt for a potential lucrative career, maybe it works.Student loan debt is reality and also need to consider earning potential after graduation.
$80k debt as a liberal arts major..... bad idea.
$80k debt +$160k debt and a lawyer, much more understandable and manageable.
Or just start a roofing company......
If your kid is going into debt for a Gender Studies degree, you've already failed as a parent.